Flirting is more of an art than a science, and techniques have definitely been upgraded over the years from the traditional gay cruise. Anonymous nods aren't enough these days. Guys want the effort along with the interest. Here's how to flirt and get a guy's attention. Make contact. Position
My awkwardness comes from many different places. Most of the time its rooted with an invisible urge to be liked and respected which in turn makes my effort totally transparent.
Gay men though, dont flirt like straight men. We dont have the same cultural dating and flirting scripts that straight men have to deal with, which allows us to flirt however we so chose.